TRIGGERnometry Dr John Gray: How to Save Your Relationship During Coronavirus Lockdown
Apr 8, 2020
John Gray, a notable relationship counselor and author of "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus," shares insights on navigating romantic relationships during the stress of lockdowns. He discusses the significance of balancing independence and connection, as well as the evolving gender dynamics influenced by feminism. Playfulness and hormonal factors are crucial for maintaining attraction, while understanding emotional needs strengthens bonds. Gray emphasizes the importance of open communication, especially regarding sexual desires, for deeper intimacy.
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Gender Differences
- Recognizing gender differences is crucial for harmonious relationships.
- These differences have become controversial due to the culture war.
Mars and Venus Metaphor
- In 1983 John Gray coined the Mars/Venus metaphor after seeing audience laughter.
- He had prayed for a way to teach about differences without anger, and playfulness was key.
Hormonal Needs for Love
- Men require significantly more testosterone than women to feel love and fulfillment.
- Societal changes make it harder for both men and women to maintain attraction.
