In this episode, I sit with Blake Zealear and Jack to explore the transformative experience of men’s work and embodied brotherhood. We open up about how connection, vulnerability, and shared experience among men create the foundation for true leadership and self-acceptance. Through honest conversation and lived stories, we reflect on what becomes possible when men learn to slow down, feel deeply, and be witnessed without judgment.

Blake shares his journey in the wake of losing his father, and how mentorship and community shaped his healing. His story reveals how grief can become a teacher—guiding us toward integrity, presence, and a steadier sense of self. We talk about the practices that support this path—naming the truth, listening with the body, and cultivating trust over time—so that strength is no longer performance, but rootedness.

Jack opens up about rediscovering softness, setting healthy boundaries, and honoring the dance of masculine and feminine within. Together, we unpack common misconceptions about men’s gatherings and highlight what actually happens in these spaces: accountability with compassion, real emotions brought into the light, and the quiet magic that emerges when men allow themselves to be seen. This conversation is a heartfelt invitation to step into your body, open your heart, and reimagine strength as wholeness.

[b]Chapters[/b]
0:02 - Welcome to Love, Sex and Leadership
1:16 - The Big Why in Menswear
9:03 - Resistance to Men-Only Spaces
13:45 - The Soul Quality in Masculine Softness
17:02 - Holding Space for the Alpha and the Feminine
20:27 - Building Trust and Vulnerability Among Men
28:29 - Embracing the Feminine Within Men

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