239: How to Ensure Your Authority Is Respected | Feedback Friday

Aug 16, 2019

This discussion dives into the challenges of asserting authority in the workplace when you're experienced but lack an official title. The hosts explore the ethical implications of hidden cameras in Airbnb rentals, raising questions about privacy and transparency. They also address the importance of social skills, recommend methods to rebuild confidence after personal setbacks, and share tips for effective communication. Plus, learn how to navigate networking opportunities and keep meaningful conversations alive.

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ADVICE

Assume Recording

Assume you're always being recorded, especially in others' homes.
Act accordingly to avoid unwanted privacy violations.

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Conversation Depth

Use the FEW principle (Facts, Emotion, Why) to deepen conversations.
Ask questions that elicit facts, then emotions, then the reasons behind those emotions.

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Genuine Interest

Show genuine interest in others to improve perceived friendliness.
Focus on the conversation, not just appearing friendly.

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At work, you're the youngest person on the team -- but you've also been there longer than anyone else. Your boss (who lives in another state) refers to you as his site lead, but you don't have an official title to reflect this. Your group needs the organization you know you can offer, but you don't want to come off as a power-hungry usurper. How do you get your boss to clarify your role -- to you and the team? On this Feedback Friday, we'll try to show you how to ensure your authority is respected.

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

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Is there a moral and/or legal obligation for Airbnb hosts to inform their guests when there are security cameras present -- whether or not they're recording anything?
Are there any online courses or coaches specialized in social skills we would recommend for making conversation and connection easier?
You're worried you don't come across as friendly. How can you improve your outer emotional reaction to people without feeling like you're overacting and being fake?
Your boss communicates with you as if you're in a leadership position, but you feel like you have no authority. Do you need to ask him to clarify your role -- to you and your team?
Is sharing photos useful when you're reconnecting with someone you haven't seen in a while, and is there networking value in alumni associations?
You tend to forget the lessons you learn from audiobooks after a couple of months. What is the best way to memorize and apply the key takeaways of these books?
What are the logistics of carrying on a successful long-distance relationship with a significant other whose sister doesn't like you and will probably undermine you from afar?
You want to start a family, but your spouse's fertility issues may prevent this. Additionally, they're averse to therapy that might help lessen the impact or present options if you receive bad news. How can you be as supportive as possible?
Life Pro Tip: Buy daily necessities in bulk when they're on sale, and pay close attention to unit prices!
Recommendation of the Week: Losing Sight of Shore
A quick shoutout to Becky, Robin, and all of the women's college volleyball players who listen to the show!
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