It’s OK That You’re Not OK with Megan Devine Organized Grief = Social Movements with Malkia Devich-Cyril
There’s no denying the grief that permeates everyday life. It’s in the news, in our communities, and in our personal lives. The thing is - we never really talk about how much this grief connects us.
This episode is STUNNING. It has gifts for everyone - whether you’re grieving a personal loss or you’re an activist of any kind. It was recorded in the summer of 2023, so you will not hear us mention P*lestine - you can bet if we’d recorded it now, that grief, and that need for belonging, would be present.
If you ARE an activist or organizer, you need to hear what Malkia has to say about our narrative strategies, and what it really takes to make change happen. If we learn to lean into that grief together, we might really create the beautiful world we all long for.
Malkia Devich-Cyril knows grief from the inside out. They grew up knowing their mom would die of her illness. They grew up immersed in the grief that is endemic to being Black in America. And they cared for their wife, comedian Alana Devich-Cyril, through her death in 2018.
In this episode we cover:
- The difference between sorrow and grief
- How “feelings aren’t facts” relates to grief
- Is it normal to feel like you failed to keep someone alive?
- Why do narrative strategists (aka: activists) need to understand grief?
- Are book bans a form of grief? (spoiler: yes, but maybe not for the reasons you think)
Looking for a creative exploration of grief? Check out the best selling Writing Your Grief course here.
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Wonder in an Age of Violence: Valarie Kaur & See No Stranger
About our guest:
Malkia Devich-Cyril is an activist, writer and public speaker on issues of digital rights, narrative power, Black liberation and collective grief. They are also the founding and former Executive Director of MediaJustice. Their writing has appeared in publications like Politico, Motherboard, Essence Magazine, The Atlantic, and three documentary films including the Oscar nominated 13th. Find them at @radical_loss Instagram.
About Megan:
Psychotherapist Megan Devine is one of today’s leading experts on grief, from life-altering losses to the everyday grief that we don’t call grief. Get the best-selling book on grief in over a decade, It’s Ok that You’re Not OK, wherever you get books. Find Megan @refugeingrief
Additional resources:
Read “The Antidote to Authoritarianism” from The Atlantic
Read Grief Belongs in Social Movements: We Embrace it?
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