Better Call Sexton James Sexton: The Harsh Reality About "Getting Divorced"
Dec 13, 2025
Dive into the transformative perspective on divorce as a peaceful chapter-ending rather than a failure. Explore the provocative idea of introducing opt-out terms in marriage to maintain intentional relationships. Laugh along with a reaction to a Texas man's outrageous lawn sign and critique a controversial Subway love message. Giselle Bundchen shares her insights on moving forward post-divorce, while a listener grapples with marriage burnout, prompting discussions on therapy and small changes to reignite passion.
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Divorce As A Chapter End
- James J. Sexton reframes divorce as the natural end of a chapter, not a moral failure.
- He urges normalizing amicable separations and recognizing happily-ever-after can mean separate lives.
Ugly Cases Are Not The Norm
- Sexton notes ugly divorces get attention but most splits are boringly amicable.
- He says lawyers often prevent wars by signaling they can and will litigate if necessary.
Use Legal Firepower Strategically
- Hire a skilled trial lawyer to create deterrence and enable settlement.
- Use the "minimum effective dose of aggression" so litigation threatens but doesn't consume the case.
