The Meaningful Life with Andrew G. Marshall Juliet Grayson: Self Differentiation: Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You?
One of the toughest challenges in a relationship is being able to forge our own individual selves. And it isn’t always something that gets easier over time.
Our ability to create a strong separate self independent of a couple relationship is strongly influenced by how we grew up, and what our relationship with our parents was like.
In this episode Andrew talks with psychosexual therapist Juliet Grayson about the question “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You?
Juliet Grayson provides extensive training courses and workshops for therapists, including training in attachment informed couple therapy, creative writing in the therapeutic encounter, and the Pesso Boyden system of psychotherapy. Her website hosts many informative webinars, covering numerous topics including shame, death and relationships.
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Read Juliet Grayson’s book, Landscapes of the Heart .
Juliet Grayson has the following websites:
www.therapyandcounselling.co.uk
www.landscapesoftheheart.co.uk
www.sexuallyinappropriatebehaviour.org
Read some of the books discussed in this episode: Kahlil Gibrain’s The Prophet, Getting to Yes by Roger Fisher and William Ury, Getting Past No by William Ury, The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk.
Learn more about the Pesso Boyden method
You might enjoy other episodes on relationship themes; including therapists Michelle Farris on Seven Signs You Might be Co-Dependent and Terry Real on The Five Traps that Undermine Your Love.
Read Andrew’s book I Love You But I’m Not in Love With You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship
Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall