Amrita Narayanan, "Women's Sexuality and Modern India: In a Rapture of Distress" (Oxford UP, 2022)
Jan 18, 2025
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Amrita Narayanan, a practicing Clinical Psychologist and Psychoanalyst, dives into the intricate landscape of women's sexuality in modern India. She explores how cultural factors shape emotional complexities and women's sexual autonomy. The conversation reveals the profound impact of parental relationships, particularly between fathers and daughters, on sexual development. Narayanan also addresses the interplay of personal desires and societal pressures, shedding light on the challenges women face in reclaiming their identities and navigating moral expectations.
The podcast emphasizes the profound impact of socio-political history on women's sexual agency in India, revealing a tension between societal expectations and personal desires.
Amrita Narayanan critiques the notion of sympathy towards women's sexual suffering, urging for a deeper understanding that goes beyond victimization towards recognizing their autonomy and complexity.
Deep dives
The Evolution of Women’s Sexuality in India
The discussion highlights the author's exploration of women’s sexual agency within the context of India’s socio-political history. The narrative indicates that the lack of a sexual revolution has led to a silence surrounding the sexuality of middle-class Indians, prompting the author to articulate this experience through various literary works. Specifically, the book employs twelve self-narrated sexual histories of women born between 1947 and 1992, using these narratives to illustrate the psychoanalytic implications of living under patriarchy. This historic dissemination underlines the tension between societal expectations and personal sexual subjectivity, demonstrating how cultural influences impact women's experiences of sexuality.
The Dangers of Sympathy for Women’s Suffering
The author critiques the notion of sympathy toward women's experiences of sexual suffering, arguing that such pity can inadvertently become a barrier to genuine agency. By framing women predominantly as victims of their circumstances, society risks reinforcing their suffering as a primary identity, thereby overshadowing their potential for autonomy and sexual expression. This conversation expands on the idea that sympathy must not morph into a form of mourning that stifles the expression of women’s eros and individual desires. The author underscores that true progress involves recognizing the complexity of women’s experiences beyond mere sympathy.
Superficiality in Understanding Women's Agency
The text discusses the superficial perspectives often employed in assessing women's agency, suggesting that external appearances do not accurately reflect internal realities. Through a framework that contrasts local cultural identifications against global sexual values, it argues for a deeper examination of individual women's experiences. The findings indicate that societal roles and expectations significantly shape how women express their sexuality and navigate their identities in various cultural contexts. By employing a nuanced approach, the discussion reveals the importance of understanding the complexities behind women’s choices and behaviors.
Mourning and Sexuality: A Psychoanalytic Perspective
The exploration of mourning extends beyond traditional notions of loss to encompass the grieving of sexual ideals and affirmations in women's lives. The author posits that women must confront the loss of developmental experiences related to their sexual agency to fully engage with their identities. These losses can manifest during therapy, as women reflect on their delayed sexual awakenings and the resulting complexities tied to their overarching narratives of agency. This multifaceted process of mourning produces an opportunity for liberation, as understanding lost experiences can catalyze the reclamation of a more fulfilling sexual self.
Amrita Narayanan is a practicing Clinical Psychologist (Psy.D. 2007) and Psychoanalyst (Indian Psychoanalytic Society, 2019). She is the author of Women's Sexuality and Modern India: In a Rapture of Distress (Oxford University Press, 2023). She was the Editor of and essayist in The Parrots of Desire: 3000 years of Erotica in India (Aleph Books, 2018) a collection of poems, short prose and fiction in translation from Indian languages, linked by an introductory essay on the central themes in Indian erotic literature. She was an essayist for Pha(bu)llus: a cultural history of the Phallus (Harper Collins, 2020). Amrita is currently visiting faculty at Ashoka University where she teaches classes at the undergraduate and masters level.
Amrita's research interests are in cultural factors in psychotherapy and psychoanalysis, the psychodynamics of women's sexual agency, and how cultural factors shape the aesthetics of women's sexual agency. Her writing has appeared in academic journals such as Psychodynamic Practice and Psychoanalytic Review; newspapers such as The Hindu and The Indian Express; and popular press periodicals such as Outlook, Open Magazine India Today and The Deccan Herald. Amrita has received the Sudhir Kakar Prize for psychoanalytic writing, the Taylor and Francis Prize for Psychoanalytic writing, and the Homi Bhabha Fellowship.
The interviewer is Psychoanalyst and Writer, Ashis Roy, New Delhi.