How Can You Truly Know A Person? In conversation with David Brooks
Jun 4, 2024
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New York Times journalist David Brooks and Nick Spencer discuss personhood, societal crisis, moral formation, historical ideas, interconnectedness of body and brain, understanding others through personality traits, and deeply seeing and understanding others in a thought-provoking conversation.
Moral formation and social skills are crucial in addressing societal challenges like suicide and mental health issues.
Understanding a person involves perceiving their subjective reality through emotional resonance and genuine interest in their perspectives.
Deep dives
The Crisis in Society and the Importance of Building Moral Formation
The increase in rates of suicide and mental health problems indicate a crisis in emotional, relational, and spiritual aspects of society. Factors like social media, economic inequality, and the decline of community life contribute to this breakdown. Emphasizing moral formation, such as teaching social skills and considerate behaviors, is identified as a key solution to address these societal challenges.
Historical Shifts in Ethos and the Impact on Character Formation
Post-World War II brought changes in societal ethos, shifting from a view of human sinfulness to a belief in inherent goodness. Institutions moved from character formation to self-actualization approaches. The decline in teaching moral values and social skills, previously prevalent in schooling, contributed to the current societal challenges in interpersonal relationships.
Understanding Personhood as a Soul and a Point of View
A person is described as comprising a soul that holds infinite value and dignity, regardless of individual qualities. The concept of personhood is expanded to include a point of view shaped by life experiences, emotions, and interpretations. Perceiving a person involves understanding their subjective reality, incorporating emotional and cognitive elements.
Building Meaningful Human Connections through Deep Listening and Understanding
Establishing deep connections with others involves patient listening, open-ended questions, and genuine interest in understanding their perspectives. Being an illuminator rather than a diminisher allows for mutual understanding and emotional resonance. Taking the time to be present, patient, and authentically engaged fosters meaningful human connections and builds personhood.
Nick Spencer speaks with New York Times Journalist David Brooks
This series of Reading our Times has looked at a number of scientific issues that have cast questions of, and sometimes shadows on, human personhood. So, in our final episode this series, we are asking specifically about that personhood.
What does it means to be a human person? And how do we come to know that personhood - not philosophically, not empirically but, well, personally. In an age in which technology threatens to remake us, even despite our intentions, how can we come to know and honour our deepest existence?
In this week's episode, Nick Spencer speaks to David Brooks about his book How To Know a Person.