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The Messy Podcast

107. The Mess of Abuse (w/ Darby Strickland)

Nov 15, 2021
Guest Darby Strickland, expert in abuse, discusses topics like identifying abuse in churches, differentiating genuine repentance and empty apologies in abusive relationships, understanding the dynamics and types of abuse, redemption and hope, addressing anxiety and victimhood with biblical passages, practical caring for abuse victims, and supporting children affected by abuse.
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  • Recognizing the signs and asking specific questions about behavior patterns are crucial in identifying abuse.
  • Patience and meekness play a significant role in offering support and helping victims apply gospel truths to their lives.

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Understanding Abuse and Its Dynamics

Abuse is a pattern of behavior where one person perpetually uses power and control to dominate their spouse, creating a relationship characterized by certain harmful behaviors. It is important to have precise definitions of abuse and recognize the entitlement and coercion at its core. Victims often don't recognize the abuse or suffer in silence. Recognizing the signs and asking specific questions about behavior patterns are crucial in identifying abuse.

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