1078: House Repairs Laggin' While He's Off the Wagon | Feedback Friday

Nov 15, 2024

In this engaging discussion, the hosts tackle tough questions on love and addiction, emphasizing the line between support and enabling behavior. They explore the emotional toll of false allegations on relationships and provide insights on maintaining boundaries in a partnership impacted by substance abuse. Aspiring interior designers are encouraged to approach networking with kindness, while those grappling with parental abandonment are guided to process their feelings. The conversation wraps up by highlighting the importance of gratitude in personal and professional contexts.

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ANECDOTE

False Accusation Update

A listener's boyfriend was falsely accused of child molestation by his ex-girlfriend.
The ex-girlfriend later admitted to lying, but only to a respected community elder.

ADVICE

Legal Advice for Defamation

Consider the compelling evidence from the respected elder's confirmation.
Pursue a defamation lawsuit due to the damage to reputation and career.

ADVICE

Handling Addiction in Relationships

Recognize enabling behaviors in relationships with addicts.
Set clear expectations and boundaries, and be prepared to enforce consequences.

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The love of your life's drinking keeps derailing your plans. When does supporting become enabling and love become liability? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

We have an update on the listener from episode 1066 whose boyfriend's ex accused him of molesting her son and his own children!
You're in what feels like a dream relationship with a partner who showers you with affection, but they're struggling with alcoholism and financial dependency. You've invested in a second home banking on their renovation skills, but their sobriety keeps wavering. How do you balance love with responsibility?
You're an entry-level kitchen designer dreaming of working at a full-service residential design firm. You want to reach out to prospective companies to learn what skills you need to develop, but crafting that perfect networking message feels daunting. How do you make that first impression count?
At age 44, you're still grappling with the pain of your father leaving when you were 12 after getting another woman pregnant. While you love your dad and half-brother, you harbor deep resentment toward his new wife. Can old wounds ever truly heal?
Your college roommate's boyfriend is moving into your building, and his behavior has always concerned you — from uncomfortable PDA to concerning power dynamics. Additionally, your friend has shared some troubling details about their relationship. How do you protect your friend while respecting boundaries?
Recommendation of the Week: Inflatable Hot Tub
For 40 years, you've crafted creative, personalized Christmas ornament cards that tell your family's annual story. While many cherish this tradition, some never acknowledge receiving them. Should you keep investing time and emotion into reaching out to an unresponsive void?
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