Secrets to a Strong Family Culture, with Jeremy Pryor

Culture matters in the corporate world. It drives profitability and retention, reduces turnover, and leads to higher job satisfaction. But the family is an arena where the stakes are even higher. Without a strong family culture, all your plans, strategy, and even your legacy will fall apart. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrN5LyEtcpE That’s why it’s time to dedicate yourself to building and living the family culture today. But what can you do to redeem your family and infuse your everyday life with meaningful connections?  Jeremy Pryor, Partner and Co-Founder of Family Teams is helping families build a multigenerational team on mission. Today, we’re having Jeremy back to talk about the definition of family, why you want to build and keep improving your family culture, and the practical steps you can take now to lay the foundation for children who opt into your multigenerational family team. If you’re looking for practical tools to strengthen your family culture today, so you have more connection, stronger bonds, more time together, and kids who choose to stay committed even after they grow up… tune in now! Table of contentsWhat is Strong Family Culture, and Why Does it Matter?The Importance of FamilyWhat Are the Components of a Strong Family Culture?Challenges for Modern FamiliesBeing Intentional with Your FamilyNegative Family Experiences Important Elements of a Thriving Strong Family CultureConnect with JeremyAbout Jeremy PryorBook A Strategy Call What is Strong Family Culture, and Why Does it Matter?  [4:06] “When you’re starting a family, this is one of the great privileges that you get to design the kind of family that you want to have.” When you are developing a company, you have the power to develop the mission and culture of that company. You do this by identifying the goals of the business, as well as a way of “being” within the company. And just like you can formulate this cohesive work team, you can also form a cohesive family team.  It starts with your relationship with your spouse. By identifying your shared values and beliefs, and how you wish to exist in your household, you lay the foundation for your family culture.  [5:05] “It’s a wonderful experience to grow up in a household, as a child, that has a particular culture that brings the family together. And it can be based on things that you really feel called to, that you really enjoy. There’s not a blueprint for family that is so rigid that you can’t bring a lot of distinctives into the family, and make it something that’s truly unique.” The Importance of Family [7:10] “I come at this as somebody who was very confused about the topic of family; not very excited, it just didn’t seem like something that…really was working well. I grew up in the Seattle area. There was just a lot of divorce, and I just noticed a lot of brokenness.” Family wasn’t something Jeremy believed he could choose to build. His experience with family units as a kid was less-than-ideal. This made him believe that you either lucked out or you didn’t. But over time he learned that there were families with an incredibly deep and intricate root system. The multi-generational families he met had a strong sense of identity and culture, and they supported one another. Their systems don’t implode when the kids grow up and have their own kids. Team Pryor’s work is all about proving that family culture can be cultivated by calling in your family members to be a part of something bigger. This helps family members find a sense of pride and belonging within the family unit, as well as a purpose. A family with strengthened bonds can work together for the good of all involved, and foster a system of support.  What Are the Components of a Strong Family Culture? [12:48] “One of the most basic ways to think about culture [is] the repeated actions that are distinctive to that group.” Oftentimes, companies come up with “aspirational values,