Axis Conversations Ask Axis: "My 8th grader seems overly materialistic. Will this change?"
Dec 16, 2025
The hosts dive into the rising concern of materialism in 8th graders, examining whether it's a normal phase. Research reveals that materialism peaks during early adolescence before tapering off. They link this spike to a drop in self-esteem, emphasizing how boosting self-worth can counteract materialist tendencies. Practical tips include assigning responsibilities to enhance trust and discussing family values to prioritize intrinsic dignity. The conversation encourages a focus on identity over materialism for lasting change.
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Materialism Peaks Then Falls In Adolescence
- Materialism rises in early adolescence and falls in later teen years according to research by Chaplin and Roeder-John.
- The rise aligns with a sharp self-esteem drop around ages 12–13, linking identity struggles to material desire.
Self-Esteem Strongly Reduces Materialism
- Higher self-esteem dramatically reduces materialism so much that age differences disappear.
- This suggests boosting self-worth is more effective than arguing about possessions.
Materialism Harms Well-Being And Relationships
- Psychological research links high materialism to more consumption, debt, poorer relationships, and worse well-being.
- Kate Watson notes secular studies confirm the spiritual and psychological risks of prioritizing possessions.