The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast CNLP 733 | You Are Not Your Work: Arianna Molloy's Blueprint for Overcoming Toxic Calling and Boundary Shaming
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Jun 5, 2025 Arianna Molloy, a Biola Professor specializing in Organizational Communication, discusses the toxic nature of over-identifying with one's calling. She shares personal stories about the fine line between fulfillment and burnout, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries. The conversation touches on how emotional well-being and self-care directly impact professional life. Arianna encourages listeners to redefine their identities beyond job titles and cultivate supportive communities to foster growth and resilience in their careers.
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When Calling Becomes Toxic
- Calling becomes toxic when focus shifts from the caller to the calling itself.
- Burnout arises when work defines you instead of expressing who you are.
Shame Deepens Calling Burnout
- Burnout related to calling includes deep shame because you no longer want to pursue what once felt sacred.
- This spiritual and emotional corrosion is more than ordinary burnout; it's identity damaging.
Use a Personal Board for Accountability
- Develop a personal board of directors to provide honest feedback and accountability.
- Meet regularly with these trusted people to process decisions and maintain a healthy calling.
