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Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal

Bonus Episode - The Science of Attraction: Why You’ve Not Met Someone - Matthew Hussey

Jun 8, 2023
54:38

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Quick takeaways

  • Attraction is a process that involves chemistry, perceived value, perceived challenge, and connection.
  • In the modern dating landscape, creating opportunities for connection and adapting to changing dynamics is crucial.

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Understanding the stages of attraction

Attraction is a process that can be broken down into four distinct stages: chemistry, perceived value, perceived challenge, and connection. Chemistry refers to the physical attraction and compatibility between two people, while perceived value refers to the qualities and attributes that individuals bring to a relationship. Perceived challenge involves having a healthy balance of giving and receiving, where both individuals have a price for their value. Finally, connection is about compatibility and shared values, where both individuals want to live a similar kind of life.

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