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Bonus Episode - The Science of Attraction: Why You’ve Not Met Someone - Matthew Hussey
Jun 8, 2023
Matthew Hussey, a renowned dating coach and author of the bestseller ‘Get the Guy’, shares insights on modern romance and attraction. He discusses the complexities of dating in today's digital age versus simpler past practices, emphasizing genuine connections over superficial sparks. Hussey explores the four stages of attraction, highlights common dating mistakes, and provides practical advice for fostering lasting relationships. He encourages women to take initiative in dating and stresses the importance of small interactions to build meaningful connections.
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- Attraction is a process that involves chemistry, perceived value, perceived challenge, and connection.
- In the modern dating landscape, creating opportunities for connection and adapting to changing dynamics is crucial.
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Understanding the stages of attraction
Attraction is a process that can be broken down into four distinct stages: chemistry, perceived value, perceived challenge, and connection. Chemistry refers to the physical attraction and compatibility between two people, while perceived value refers to the qualities and attributes that individuals bring to a relationship. Perceived challenge involves having a healthy balance of giving and receiving, where both individuals have a price for their value. Finally, connection is about compatibility and shared values, where both individuals want to live a similar kind of life.
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