Cues of safety, danger, or life threat come from three places- inside, outside, and between.

In part 3 of this series on felt safety, we are exploring felt safety from between- from relationship!

In this episode, you’ll learn

How availability of connection is a cue of safety or danger
How neuroception can tell the state of the other person’s nervous system (connection or protection?)
Why nervous systems are contagious
How ‘between’ cues of safety eventually become ‘inside’ cues of safety
How you can increase your own experience of safety even when you are parenting children in stuck in chronic procession mode

Resources mentioned in this podcast:

Connection Or Protection??? {Ep 7}
When Your Nervous System Is Fried {Ep 139}
Influence Behaviors, Not Control {Ep 101}
Amanda Diekman’s Book! - Low-Demand Parenting

Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/feltsafetybetween

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