Exploring the differences between real therapy and its portrayal in TV shows, showcasing the active role therapists play. Delving into the essence of therapy, emphasizing self-discovery and growth. Navigating professional boundaries, self-disclosure, and the power of saying 'No' in therapy sessions.
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Therapy involves self-discovery, healing, and skill development to manage emotions and relationships effectively.
Real therapy differs from TV portrayals by emphasizing trust, boundaries, active listening, and client empowerment.
Setting boundaries is important in relationships, allowing for healthy communication and balancing personal needs with others' expectations.
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Therapy as a Process of Self-Reflection and Healing
Therapy is like looking in a mirror with someone across from you helping you see what you can't see about yourself. It is a process of addressing emotions, negative thoughts, and relationships, healing from the past, and developing skills to manage stress and symptoms. Therapy can cover various areas of life, such as anxiety, relationships, values, and spirituality. It involves getting to know oneself better and identifying steps to becoming more authentic.
Challenging Misconceptions about Therapy Portrayed in Media
The portrayal of therapy in pop culture can often misrepresent the true nature of therapy. TV shows like 'Shrinking' may depict therapists with blurred boundaries, lacking important professional ethics. However, therapy in real-life involves establishing trust and boundaries with clients. It is not just nodding and asking how one feels, but also includes active listening, self-disclosure, genuine care, and guidance. Therapy is not about telling clients what to do, but helping them explore their own thoughts, feelings, and find their own solutions.
The Value of Communication and Contextualizing Boundaries
Boundaries play an important role in therapy and interpersonal relationships. While it is true that saying 'no' can be a complete sentence, it is also valuable to offer more context and communicate kindly with others. In personal relationships, it is important to understand each other's needs and considerate to share reasons when declining requests. As therapists, setting boundaries means balancing self-care and client needs, providing explanations when necessary, and finding ways to communicate effectively.
Navigating Boundaries and Nuance in Relationships
Boundaries are not one-size-fits-all and can vary in different relationships. In therapy, boundaries are dynamic and based on the therapist-client relationship. It is essential to find the middle ground between being too rigid and being too diffuse with boundaries. Each relationship requires thoughtfulness and tailored responses. In intimate relationships, where closeness and emotional connection are present, boundaries may involve sharing more about personal experiences and reasons behind decisions.
Understanding Therapy as a Process of Self-Discovery
Therapy supports individuals in embracing their authentic selves and understanding their own needs. It helps individuals navigate experiences, beliefs, and values that may be holding them back. A therapist provides guidance, support, and tools to help individuals process emotions, modify relationships, and develop skills necessary for personal growth. Therapy empowers individuals to become more self-aware and make choices that align with their true selves
This week, Tara Booker is back for another installment of “The Difference Between,” a series where we break down the difference between a mental health related topic and how it shows up in pop culture. This week we rolled it back to the basics and talked about what therapy really is versuses how some popular tv shows portray it. Spoiler: It isn’t just us nodding our heads and asking you how you feel and it also isn’t us telling you what to do!
Then we breakdown why sometimes “No” is a complete sentence and why sometimes its helpful to offer more information when setting a boundary. It all goes back to the grey nuanced reality of what relationships really are- and there isn’t a right way that works all of the time!