Queer Collective Podcast

The Epidemic of Masc Fragility ft. Ms. Myles And Danielle Lastres

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Aug 14, 2025
Join Ms. Myles, a multifaceted creative and co-founder advocating for QT, BIPOC, and 2SLGBTQIA+ spaces, alongside Danielle Lastres, a trans photographer breaking beauty norms. They dive into the roots of femmephobia and how societal disdain for femininity manifests. The conversation explores the unique challenges faced by trans femmes and the emotional complexities surrounding identity. They also tackle dating dynamics, emphasizing the need for inclusivity and understanding in both romantic and community spaces while celebrating authentic expressions of queer femininity.
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INSIGHT

Femphobia Defined And Its Impact

  • Femphobia is the systemic devaluation and policing of femininity across genders.
  • It places femininity as subordinate and elevates non-feminine traits into power structures.
ANECDOTE

Groped During A DJ Set

  • Ms. Myles describes being groped while DJing by someone she knew from high school.
  • She froze and minimized the assault, reflecting survival tactics taught to feminine people.
ANECDOTE

Violence After Transition

  • Danielle recounts being assaulted after transitioning and feeling unprepared despite expecting resilience.
  • She emphasizes how transition revealed new vulnerabilities she hadn't anticipated.
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