The definition of masculinity has been undergoing a significant change in recent years, with a growing realization that the traditional model of masculinity has been harmful and limiting for men.

In this episode, we delve into the uncharted territories of masculinity and the challenges men face in today's society. Our guest, Trevor, shares his journey and the lessons he has learned along the way, including his latest project, "Behind the Masks of Men," a three-month program aimed at helping men delve deeper into the topics of anger, relationships, sex, and desire.

Join us as we explore the false initiation of sexuality through porn and the importance of tackling these taboo topics for the betterment of not just men, but society as a whole.

Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise and Man UNcivilized. He’s a two time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement. He’s helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to meditate, train their bodies, and blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.

He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.

Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website.

In this episode

2:46 Traver Boehm's personal journey of self-discovery and growth after a series of events in his life that led to a destabilization of his sense of identity and purpose.

12:12 A new paradigm of masculinity proposed amidst epidemic of pain in the male population.

18:23 Breaking down gender stereotypes: The negative impact of narrow masculine emotional expression.

20:17 Understanding masculinity in today's society.

26:08 Exploring the importance of balancing masculine and emotional intelligence in relationships.

32:37 Integrating masculine and feminine: Moving beyond limiting identities.

38:26 The importance of integrity in relationships and life.

41:31 Understanding the pain of "nice guys" and practical solutions.

47:53 The power of embracing the primal and divine within.

53:46 Behind the masks of men: A three-month program to explore emotional and sexual issues.

Mentioned

Behind the Masks of Men

Man UNcivilized (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)

Today I Rise: How To Overcome The Gut-Wrenching Pain Of Your Breakup Or Divorce & Reclaim Your Life (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)

Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love

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Websites: manuncivilized.com

Podcast: The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

Instagram: instagram.com/traverboehm/?hl=en

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