Perhaps you are someone who would be described as successful by the people who know you. If that success is in business, maybe your world is filled with luxury accommodations, gourmet meals, and exotic vacations. If you're a successful parent, perhaps one of your children is now attending Stanford and you have another that's heading off to Harvard next fall.

Whatever the extent of your achievements happen to be, there is likely at least one area of your life that seems to trip you up...One thing that you simply can't muster the motivation necessary for success.

This week, I want to tell you why you continually fail at that thing...and how to finally fix it.

• [00:21] Problem areas
• [00:52] My own issues
• [02:08] The reason we fail
• [05:20] What's the common thread?
• [06:03] Here's the answer
• [07:52] You CAN take control (try this exercise)
• [11:31] Your mental state

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