On this episode of The Masterful Coach, Molly Claire shares a discussion she recently had with Leah Davidson on Leah’s podcast, Building Resilience. Today, they will explore how thoughtwork can sometimes lead to self-blame and over-functioning within relationships, the dangers of dismissing genuine issues under the guise of mindset shifting, and the importance of processing emotions rather than suppressing them. Leah will also share insights on the relationship between our thoughts, our nervous system, and our overall emotional health.

So, whether you're a life coach looking to refine your practice or simply curious about the thought patterns that shape our lives, this episode will provide valuable perspectives and practical advice. Tune in as we unravel the complexities of thoughtwork and learn how to apply it wisely and compassionately in both our lives and our coaching practices.

For the full show notes, go to: https://www.mollyclaire.com/blog/navigating-the-double-edged-sword-using-mindset-work-wisely-with-molly-and-leah-davidson

Key Points

05:35 Nervous system affects thoughts, feelings, actions. Avoid weaponizing thought work for safety.

07:43 Using tools improperly can be harmful.

10:55 Shift mindset to avoid blame and criticism.

14:32 Gaslighting, critical thinking, and negative relationship behaviors.

18:00 Shifting responsibility by using thoughtwork.

21:21 Take ownership of actions, don't dismiss others.

22:55 Use mindset work for yourself, not against.

27:49 Questioning ingrained thinking patterns can lead to breakthroughs.

34:35 Examining when you’re using thoughtwork to dismiss and minimize feelings.

36:41 Teaching coaching fundamentals: nervous system, thought work, emotions.

41:06 Stress resilience is important, but reduction matters.

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