Parenting Hack: Being Bored Is Actually Good For Kids
Aug 31, 2023
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Discover why boredom is good for kids and how it can unlock creativity. Learn about addressing the issue of not wearing a helmet while bike riding and the importance of parents ensuring their children's safety. Explore the benefits of allowing kids to experience boredom, fostering creativity and problem-solving skills. Find out strategies to encourage boredom for kids, such as dinner time conversations and giving them time to let their minds run free.
Parents should balance their child's independence and safety by discussing the importance of wearing a helmet with their friends and their parents.
Embracing boredom can stimulate creativity, problem-solving skills, and help children find activities they truly care about.
Deep dives
Encouraging Independence and Safety
Sally's 13 and a half-year-old son wants to spend time with his friends, but they ride their bikes without helmets. The hosts suggest getting to know the friends and their parents, inviting them over to discuss the importance of helmets. They emphasize the need to balance independence and safety, reminding Sally's son that being picked on is outweighed by the risk of serious injury and encouraging him to consider what he would want if a friend were to get hurt. They suggest asserting that wearing a helmet is non-negotiable until he is mature enough to obey the laws.
The Benefits of Boredom
The hosts discuss an article advocating for embracing boredom as a normal and healthy part of life. Boredom can stimulate creativity, problem-solving skills, and finding activities that individuals truly care about. They urge parents not to immediately fill their children's boredom with suggestions or activities, as this can hinder their capacity for independent thought and innovation. Instead, parents can engage in discussions about boredom at the dinner table and encourage their children to explore opportunities for creativity and problem-solving when feeling bored.
Creating Downtime and Freedom
The hosts highlight the importance of giving children downtime and space for unstructured activities. They suggest reducing packed schedules and stimulating children's creativity by offering access to resources like kitchens, games, puzzles, and books. While some children may benefit from suggestions, parents should also encourage their children to explore and find their own solutions when feeling bored. Through open conversations and sharing their own experiences with boredom, parents can help children understand that it is a natural state which can lead to opportunities for creativity and problem-solving.
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