Sexy Marriage Radio Talking About Sex With Your Spouse #687
Jul 31, 2024
Effective communication about sex in marriage is vital. The discussion revolves around naming intentions and using soft, tactful language. Couples are encouraged to approach sensitive topics slowly, prioritizing listening and understanding. The difference between having sex and being sexual is examined, emphasizing emotional connections. Compassion for oneself and each other plays a crucial role in nurturing intimacy, fostering a supportive environment for open dialogue.
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Maybe So, Maybe Not Proverb
- A humble farmer proverb frames how quickly we rush to label events as good or bad.
- The hosts use it to show marriage problems often look different over time.
Name Your Intention First
- Name your real intention before you bring up sex so the conversation stays clear and less reactive.
- Say what you want (e.g., connection, more quality) instead of covertly pushing for control.
Treat Each Other As Teammates
- Treat your spouse as a teammate, not an opponent, to reduce defensiveness in sexual conversations.
- Collaboration reframes problems as shared goals rather than wins and losses.