Why do we often critique excellence instead of admiring it? Jealousy and insecurity can cloud our appreciation for talent in sports, academia, and the arts. Rather than focusing on the negative, we should celebrate hard work and the discipline behind greatness. Embracing a culture of admiration can inspire personal growth and encourage us to cultivate excellence in our own lives.
Criticism often arises from jealousy and insecurity, leading us to overlook the hard work behind others' achievements.
Embracing a mindset of admiration encourages personal growth and fosters a supportive environment that values excellence.
Deep dives
Embracing Admiration Over Critique
The discussion highlights the tendency to critique others instead of appreciating their excellence. Often, when confronted with someone’s achievements, people react with jealousy or skepticism, downplaying their accomplishments by pointing out perceived flaws or disadvantages. This behavior stems from a critical mindset that prioritizes comparison and competition over admiration. By recognizing and celebrating excellence in various fields, individuals can foster a more positive and supportive environment that encourages growth and appreciation.
The Value of Participation and Effort
The notion of the 'man in the arena' is presented to emphasize the importance of active participation in life rather than succumbing to a critical role. The true measure of success lies not in the critique of others but in the courage to strive, fail, and improve through personal effort. Engaging fully in one’s pursuits allows for personal growth and achievement, regardless of the outcomes. This perspective cultivates a deeper understanding that life is about striving towards excellence with integrity, rather than merely judging from the sidelines.
When we encounter excellence, what prompts us to critique rather than admire?
Fr. Mike suggests that this tendency often stems from jealousy and insecurity. He says humans are made to admire all that is praiseworthy. When we witness remarkable talent in athletics, academics, or the arts, we should take the opportunity to commend the hard work and discipline that leads to greatness.
God made us to appreciate excellence and work to cultivate it in our own lives.