#15: Help your Toddler Thrive with Dr. Tovah Klein
Apr 29, 2014
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Child psychologist and author Dr. Tovah Klein talks about her book on how parents can help toddlers thrive. They discuss perspective, expectations, and the importance of a developmentally appropriate curriculum. The Parents Phrase Book author Whit Honea shares his script for repairing parent-child relationships after losing your cool.
Acknowledge the unique needs of each child and create a loving and forgiving environment to promote healthy development.
Instead of expecting toddlers to behave like adults, parents should try to understand their perspective and adjust their parenting style accordingly for better relationships and interactions with their young children.
Deep dives
Understanding the Changing Landscape of Parenting
Over the years, parenting has seen significant changes with increased pressure and access to information. Parents today often feel overwhelmed and struggle to trust their instincts as there seems to be a drive for one right way of parenting. This pressure has led to a competitive environment, where parents compare their children's achievements. However, experts emphasize the importance of recognizing that every child is different, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. Acknowledging the unique needs of each child and creating a loving and forgiving environment is crucial in promoting healthy development.
Understanding the World Through a Toddler's Perspective
Author and child psychologist Dr. Tova Klein discusses the importance of understanding toddlers and their peculiar behaviors. She emphasizes that toddlers live in a different world from adults due to their limited experience and brain development. It is vital for parents to view their young children's actions in the context of their development. Instead of expecting toddlers to behave like adults, parents should try to grasp their perspective and adjust their parenting style accordingly. This shift in understanding can lead to better parent-child relationships and more enjoyable interactions.
Repairing Parenting Mistakes and Maintaining a Strong Relationship
Parenting is not about perfection, and even the best parents make mistakes. Dr. Tova Klein highlights the importance of repairing the parent-child relationship after moments of frustration or miscommunication. A genuine apology and reassurance of unconditional love can help children navigate their emotions and feel secure. Repairing these moments of stress and conflict helps children recognize that mistakes are part of life and doesn't impact their worth or the love their parents have for them.
Focusing on Play and Child-Centered Learning in Pre-K Education
Dr. Tova Klein advocates for a child-centered approach in pre-K education. She emphasizes that learning for toddlers predominantly occurs through play and hands-on experiences. Block building, pretend play, and other interactive activities are essential for young children's development. While there is an ongoing debate about the direction of pre-K education, it is crucial to prioritize the holistic development of children and maintain a balance between instruction and play-based learning, ensuring that children can explore, experiment, and develop essential skills.
Child psychologist and author Dr. Tovah Klein joins us to talk about her new book, How Toddlers Thrive, What Parents Can do Today for Children Ages 2-5 to Plant the Seeds of Lifelong Success. Dr. Klein suggests that we consider our perspective and expectations as we guide our toddlers. We also talk about Universal Pre-K programs and Dr. Klein's advice for a developmentally appropriate curriculum.
The Parents Phrase Bookauthor Whit Honea joins us again to share his script for repairing the relationship with your child after those inevitable moments when you lose your cool and say something you wish you hadn't.
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