#87 - Why Women Self-Sabotage Relationships & The Hidden WISDOM Behind It

Why do so many women sabotage relationships just when things are going great? In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth about self-sabotage. It’s not a mistake—it’s a subconscious test, a way for the feminine to uncover if a man can truly handle her in all her wildness and depth.

Using Jungian psychology, I’ll explain why these patterns aren’t random. They’re a way of finding safety, of asking: Can he hold space for all of me, or will he fold when things get real?

If you’ve ever felt misunderstood or chaotic in dating—or if you’re a man wondering why she suddenly “went crazy”—this episode will give you the clarity you didn’t know you needed.

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00:00 - Intro

02:01 - Why women self-sabotage in early-stage relationships

04:30 - The archetype of the self in Jungian psychology

08:15 - Understanding the divine wisdom in self-sabotage

12:00 - Why women test their partners (unconsciously and consciously)

16:45 - Mythology and rom-coms: Lessons in the feminine journey

20:39 - How men can hold space for a woman’s full expression

25:12 - The shadow feminine vs. the healed feminine

30:15 - Practical tips for conscious communication in dating

36:00 - For men: How to handle chaos without losing your center

42:05 - Building trust and emotional safety in relationships

48:00 - Why self-sabotage is ultimately about self-trust

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Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com