The Documentary Podcast Finding my Sikh faith against the odds
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Sep 26, 2025 Harj Gahley, a recovering gambling addict and community campaigner, shares his journey of overcoming addiction through his Sikh faith. He recalls the thrill of his first casino visit, which spiraled into a decade of deception and financial ruin. Harj faced shame when seeking help from his community, highlighting a cultural stigma around addiction. A life-changing moment with his son sparked his spiritual reconnection. Now, he advocates for awareness and founded a charity to support others battling gambling harm, transforming his experience into a force for good.
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From First Win To Massive Losses
- Harj describes his first casino visit turning £20 into £60 and the rush that hooked him.
- Within months he gambled away his acquisition money and escalated to £100,000 losses chasing wins.
A Decade Of Secrets Exposed
- Harj hid his addiction for 12 years, borrowing, stealing and defrauding friends and family.
- His wife discovered transactions and they found £250,000 of debt, shattering trust and the marriage's stability.
Crisis, Wakeup Call And His Son's Role
- After a suicidal car crash Harj woke to a paramedic urging belief, which began his gratitude and reflection.
- Two days later his son Jeevan's words and presence anchored his decision to change and find purpose.