

1107: Ballet Date with a Geopolitical Incel Mate | Feedback Friday
22 snips Jan 24, 2025
Tune in for a quirky exploration of a PhD student's awkward friendship with a ballet-loving colleague who holds extreme views. From chaotic neighbors to navigating tricky family dynamics, the hosts tackle it all with humor. They discuss the challenges of setting boundaries with toxic friends, the nuances of cultural integration, and how to address familial trauma. Plus, discover the importance of direct communication in resolving conflicts! It's a rollercoaster of insights and laughs.
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Geopolitical Incel Colleague
- A PhD student describes a peculiar colleague with concerning views and odd behaviors.
- The colleague admires authoritarian leaders, espouses homophobia, yet enjoys ballet and possibly has repressed homosexual tendencies.
Balancing Empathy and Self-Protection
- Acknowledge the colleague's vulnerabilities, but prioritize self-preservation.
- Set clear boundaries and protect your time, energy, and sanity.
Projection of Internalized Shame
- The colleague's rigid views might stem from internalized shame and trauma.
- His fascination with power and authoritarianism could be a need for safety.