ask a sub 12. Brat Motivations with Lola Jean
Feb 24, 2023
Join kink educator Lola Jean, known as the Brat Whisperer and a record-holder for squirting, as she dives deep into the playful world of brat dynamics. Lola unveils the six motivations behind bratting, including attention seeking and the thrill of resistance. She shares strategies for engaging attention brats and discusses how trust and autonomy influence submission. Delve into the psychology of past wounds and how they shape the bratting experience, transforming risk into joyful, consensual chaos.
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Bratting As A Playful Power Language
- A brat is a kink identity that uses playful resistance and push-pull dynamics rather than simple compliance.
- Bratting often thrives in negotiated consent and can cross dom/sub labels depending on context.
Use Motivations To Guide Play
- Use brat motivations as communication tools to clarify why someone brats and how to respond.
- Expect people to embody multiple motivations and negotiate responses accordingly.
A Listener Realizes Their Brat Type
- A listener thought they fit none of the motivations until Lola diagnosed them as an autonomy brat.
- Lola used this moment to remind people that motivations often surprise you.