400: 3 Modern Manners for Friendship // Brooke Romney
Nov 7, 2024
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Brooke Romney, a mom of four and author of the "52 Modern Manners" series, shares her expertise on guiding teens in friendship. She provides three essential conversations for parents to help their teens build and maintain meaningful friendships. Through relatable stories, Brooke emphasizes the importance of kindness and celebrating others' achievements in social dynamics. She also discusses how modern manners can enhance communication and relationships, making navigating the teen years a bit easier for parents and kids alike.
Surrounding ourselves with supportive friends is crucial for emotional well-being and can transform negative social experiences into positive connections.
Teaching teens to celebrate others' successes fosters resilience and creates a supportive community, enhancing personal relationships and emotional stability.
Deep dives
Finding New Friends
Recognizing the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive friends is essential for emotional well-being. The concept of finding new friends becomes relevant when existing friendships cause exclusion or negativity. An example shared illustrates how a teenager, upon realizing his friends' mistreatment, sought to change his social circle, leading to a more fulfilling high school experience. This process, while challenging, ultimately allowed him to connect with individuals who appreciated him for who he is.
Celebrating Others' Success
Emotional maturity is evident when individuals learn to celebrate the successes of others rather than downplay them. One example demonstrated how a teenager who had been practicing this principle found solace when facing her own disappointment after losing an election. By actively supporting her peers, she created a supportive community that rallied around her during tough times, showing how celebrating others can enhance personal resilience. This practice not only enriches relationships but also fosters a more positive outlook.
Waiting for Your Turn to Talk
Teaching children the value of waiting for their turn to speak promotes respect and enhances communication skills. Effective strategies, such as creating special signals for kids to use when seeking attention, can significantly improve polite interactions. Many families discovered the benefits of this practice, noting that it reduced interruptions and made conversations more enjoyable. This foundational skill in turn encourages kids to be more aware and considerate, ultimately shaping their character in social settings.
Brooke Romney is the queen of modern manners for teens.
If you missed it, our last episode was an interview I did with Brooke about friendship problems in the teen years. I hope her words in that interview resonated with you like they did with me.
This episode is a little bonus addition where I asked Brooke to share three mini conversations we can have with our teens to help them get better at friendships. (Because, let’s face it, most teens need some help learning how to be a good friend! Does anyone else feel like they have a toddler again? 🥴)
For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.