It is perfectly normal to have narcissistic tendencies but those with NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) have the following traits:
- Have an exaggerated sense of self-importance
- Have a sense of entitlement and require constant, excessive admiration
- Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it
- Exaggerate achievements and talents
- Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate
- Believe they are superior and can only associate with equally special people
Healthy narcissism will always have empathy and compassion as well as the ability to set boundaries. It is not exploitive and will be devoid of pathological envy.
So are you a narcissist? Probably not if you are able to self reflect and correct a problem stemming from within.
