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Midge Dector, a prominent figure in neo-conservatism, had a transition in her political views from her liberal beginnings as she aligned with the Republican Party against the new left and feminist movements in the mid-70s. She was part of the Coalition for a Democratic Majority, attempting to reconcile the Democratic Party and later found common ground with Ronald Reagan's conservative stance.
Midge Dector's book 'Liberal Parents, Radical Children' reflects her critique of generational dynamics where she condemns parents for being permissive and coddling towards their children. She advocates for instilling a sense of gratitude and realism in children rather than indulging their grievances, highlighting a broader theme of generational conflicts in her work.
Midge Dector's works are influenced by a conservative interpretation of Freudian psychology, emphasizing traditional gender roles and sexual dynamics. Her writings eroticize anti-feminist perspectives and highlight a heteronormative worldview, evident in her emphasis on male sexual assertiveness and female sexual resistance.
In 'The Boys on the Beach', Midge Dector displays a critical stance towards the gay rights movement, portraying a sense of moral outrage and rejecting the societal shifts towards greater LGBTQ acceptance. Her writing reflects a conservative perspective on sexuality and gender norms, echoing themes of resistance to societal change and advocacy for traditional values.
The podcast delves into a detailed analysis of societal dynamics and evolving gender roles on Fire Island in the 70s and early 80s. It highlights the narrator's observations of the transformation of Fire Island into a primarily gay beach and vacation spot, shedding light on the coexistence of straight and gay communities. The focus is on the narrator's exploration of emerging behaviors and mores among gay men, showcasing the conflicts and interactions between different social groups.
The episode critically examines Midge Dector's approach to gender identity and societal norms, particularly in relation to her text about Fire Island. It discusses Dector's portrayals of masculinity and femininity, emphasizing her perspectives on the ideal middle American family man and the concept of heterosexual honor. The analysis extends to Dector's views on the undermining of traditional gender roles by feminists and minorities, as well as her admiration for masculinity and virility in the context of American society and foreign policy.
In this episode, Matt and Sam join Moira Donegan and Adrian Daub — co-hosts of the new podcast “In Bed With The Right" — for an in-depth look at the life, times, and work of the late Midge Decter, who died in 2022. Decter was inspired by a distinctly conservative, mid-century American reading of Freudian psychology, mobilized in defense of traditional family hierarchies, which made her an important link between neoconservatives and the religious right — unsurprisingly, she helped found or served on the boards of numerous conservative organizations, including the Heritage Foundation, Committee for the Free World, and the Independent Women's Forum, among others. Her essays, books, and memoirs represent an anguished counter-revolt against the sexual liberation movements of the 1960s, 70s, and 80s, and her trajectory from (ostensible) New Deal liberal to anti-feminist Cold Warrior proves a perfect subject for Know Your Enemy. Decter also was married to Norman Podhoretz (another subject of KYE lore) and the mother of John Podhoretz, current editor of Commentary magazine. A quarrelsome, Jewish conservative with a lively writing style and a fascinating, emblematic life story: what could be better?
Further Reading:
Midge Decter, An Old Wife’s Tale: My Seven Decades in Love and War (2002)
—The New Chastity and Other Arguments Against Women's Liberation (1972)
— Always Right: Selected Writings of Midge Decter (2002)
— Liberal Parents, Radical Children (1975)
— Rumsfeld: A Personal Portrait (2003)
— “The Boys on the Beach,” Commentary, Sept 1980.
— “Socialism & Its Irresponsibilities: The Case of Irving Howe,” Commentary, Dec 1982.
— “Documentation: Sex Education on Trial—What They’re Teaching Our Children,” Crisis Magazine, Dec 1, 1998.
John Podhoretz, A Son’s Eulogy for Midge Decter (1927-2022), Commentary, May 12, 2022.
R. R. Reno, “My Memories of Midge Decter,” First Things, May 11, 2022.
Jeet Heer, “Farewell to Midge Decter, the Bigot on the Beach,” The Nation, May 13, 2022.
Ronnie Grinberg, “An overlooked conservative writer helps explain Trump’s enduring appeal,” Washington Post, May 20, 2022.
Douglas Martin, “Midge Decter, an Architect of Neoconservatism, Dies at 94,” NYTimes, May 9, 2022.
Adrienne Rich, “The Anti-Feminist Woman,” NYRB, Nov 30, 1972.
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