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Episode 161 - Sleight of Mouth and what I'm learning from Dilts's Sleight of Mouth II

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Mar 2, 2024
Dive into the fascinating world of Sleight of Mouth, where Doug shares his journey from NLP novice to instructor. Discover insights from Robert Dilts's new illustrated book that enhance understanding of reframing beliefs. Learn how deliberate practice in music and storytelling parallels mastering these techniques. Explore the integration of body, heart, and mind in coaching, and catch Doug's personal storytelling triumphs. Plus, get a sneak peek into upcoming training and a free webinar that promises to deepen your skills!
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Early Training And The User's Guide

  • Doug O'Brien learned Sleight of Mouth in 1987 from Robert Dilts and Todd Epstein and later taught it to Tony Robbins trainers in New York.
  • He wrote The User's Guide to Sleight of Mouth to include the visual charts missing from Dilts's original book.
ADVICE

Deliberate Practice With Charts

  • Practice Sleight of Mouth deliberately by filling out the charts and rehearsing reframes before real interactions.
  • Frequent practice makes pattern responses pop up naturally when facing beliefs or objections.
ADVICE

Let Patterns Surface Naturally

  • Learn patterns by letting appropriate reframes 'pop up' rather than forcing a fixed order; follow what naturally fits the belief.
  • Trust pattern recognition: consequence, intent, metaphor, etc., will surface based on the expressed belief.
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