No Visible Bruises

Interview With Professor Sam Vaknin - Author of Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited - Part 1

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Mar 23, 2021
Professor Sam Vaknin, author of 'Malignant Self-Love: Narcissism Revisited,' discusses the uniqueness of narcissistic abuse, how narcissists live in their minds, and the challenges of diagnosing narcissistic behavior. With over 26 years of study, he has coined terms like 'narcissistic supply' and 'narcissistic abuse' to help victims recover.
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ANECDOTE

Narcissistic Abuse Pioneer

  • Sam Vaknin coined the term "narcissistic abuse" and started support groups in 1995.
  • There was no established terminology or online resources for victims at that time.
INSIGHT

Total Abuse

  • Narcissistic abuse differs from typical abuse because it's highly personalized and pervasive.
  • Narcissists target every aspect of their victim's life, treating them as internal objects rather than individuals.
INSIGHT

Unintentional Abuse

  • A narcissist's intention isn't to abuse, but their actions become abusive due to their self-focused needs.
  • They view partners as extensions of themselves, causing them to become collateral damage.
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