If you’re married, you know that there will inevitably be some disagreements between you and your spouse.

Could be about the most common things, like finances. Or sometimes you might have a big fight about something really minor, like choosing a restaurant.

Usually, these things get resolved. Reasonable adults can figure out a solution or a compromise, and life goes on.

For Ramon, that’s not how it worked out. He and his wife Lulu had gotten to the point where their marriage could not be saved, and a divorce was coming up. But then Lulu decided to take things to a whole new level, and hire someone to murder Ramon. That’s when things got a little crazy.

This is a Flashback episode. Ramon told this story 5 years ago here on the podcast, so after our conversation you’ll hear a chat the he and I had just recently about what he’s doing today, and the latest news about Lulu.

Ramon’s book:

https://www.amazon.com/I-Walked-My-Own-Grave/dp/0578217651/ref=sr_1_1

Ramon interview on YouTube:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=afxOgtRFJWw

Ramon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealramonsosa

Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:

https://WhatWasThatLike.com/180

Graphics for this episode by Bob Bretz. Transcription was done by James Lai.

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