18. How to Decenter Men *BUT Still Enjoy Dating Men* | Stop Worshipping the Male Gaze

There is no time like the present to re-evaluate your relationship with men.

The cost of centering men in your life:

• Never truly meeting yourself because you're stuck in a cycle of appealing to the male gaze
• Lack of autonomy and self-expression
• Loss of female friendships
• Missed opportunities

And so, so much more...

So what are we going to do about it?

Some people are all about divesting from men completely. I don't think that's the answer for me.

So today, we're talking about decentering men WHILE dating them. This episode will still be relevant if you're actively in a relationship with men or never wanted a relationship with men in the first place.

We're all living in a patriarchal society - one that seems to be absolutely imploding and targeting women during it's downfall right now...

Resources Mentioned:

• Jamila Bradley's Substack, The Broken Pedestal Society
• Venus-in-Pisces
• Red Alert for Genocide: USA