Disruptors Even Deeper Results of Therapy (How to be Happy & Successful Despite Being Screwed Up) - (Mini Series Part 3) [Business, mindset, entrepreneur, disruptors]
Success is not achieved easily, you have to sweat for it and therapy is the key to achieving it. Therapy is personal development, the control of your emotions, the increase in your self-worth and the driver behind success. Tune in to this honest episode of the Disruptive Entrepreneur and discover Rob’s reasons for therapy, how you can overcome your fear, defeat what’s holding you back and use this advice to make 2020 your year.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Success is not achieved easily, one has to sweat for it, and for you to achieve it, you need to do a couple of things and one of them is personal development. One of the most beneficial personal development things that you can do is having therapy.
- Having a therapist does not necessarily mean that you are broken, you can do therapy when you are feeling lonely or when you feel that there are some things that you need to tell someone who will listen to you, someone who will not judge you but someone who will help you face your problems.
- Do not listen to people who judge you when they hear that you are having therapy. When you listen to those kinds of people, weakness strikes because you will start judging yourself and this restricts you from thinking straight thus you will only be hearing success from others because you will never be successful.
- A therapist is someone who you pay to listen to you and you need this type of person because you need to have those deep conversations and you can’t have these types of conversations with people close to you, work colleagues or friends because they will always cut you in the middle of that conversation when they feel they need to add something they relate with.
- You first need to know yourself before you can be successful because you need to face your fears, maybe they are fears from your childhood and unless you talk them out to someone who will listen to you and guide you on how to face them, you will always be stuck and this will not help you in achieving success.
- The work you do on yourself and your personal development, your mindset, your emotional management, and control, how you feel about yourself and your self worth, that is all vital to your success. That is the reason you need a therapist.
- Believe in having mentors and masterminds and getting coaches and having a therapist, getting help from those that have been there and done it is the only best thing you can do to achieve success.
- Few people say you don't need mentors, you don't need to get help. You got to figure it out yourself. How do you figure out the baggage you had as a child, things that maybe you lacked, whether it's love from our mother or father, or some kind of abuse or loneliness or extreme challenge or significant emotional event? That creates these voids and these pains in us. That's hard to figure out yourself. You need a therapist to listen to you and guide you on how to face those fears and after this, success will come your way.
BEST MOMENTS
- “People perceive that you have to be broken to have a therapist.”
- “99% of the things you worry about never actually happen.”
- “The skillset without the mindset will leave you upset.”
- “Believe in getting help from those that have been there and done it.”
- “Always say to yourself that this is me, this is who I am and it's okay.”
- “Without each other, we couldn't survive as a race.”
- “Your voids create your values, the pains and the gaps and holes in your soul drive what you want and what you shoot for and what you find most important in your life.”
- “If you don't risk anything, you risk everything.”
[Business, mindset, entrepreneur, disruptors]
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ABOUT THE HOST
Rob Moore is an author of 9 business books, 5 UK bestsellers, holds 3 world records for public speaking, entrepreneur, property investor, and property educator. Author of the global bestseller “Life Leverage” Host of UK’s No.1 business podcast “Disruptors”
“If you don't risk anything, you risk everything”
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