Worry is driven by our lower self and reptilian brain, hindering personal success in various domains.
By practicing 'positive worry,' individuals can gradually shift their mindset and reduce the impact of worry in their lives.
Deep dives
Understanding the Causes of Worry
Worrying is a natural function of the human mind, driven by our lower self and reptilian brain's constant search for problems and worst-case scenarios. This worry can lead to self-sabotage and hinder personal success in various domains such as relationships and business.
Recognizing the Uselessness of Worry
Although worry may provide temporary motivation, it drains mental resources and focus, leading to self-fulfilling prophecies and a lack of positive outcomes. By adopting the belief that worry is entirely useless, individuals can reduce the frequency and severity of their worry episodes, focusing instead on what they can control and shifting their thoughts to positive outcomes.
Shifting from Negative to Positive Worry
To combat worry, individuals must develop awareness of their negative thinking patterns, periodically pausing to assess their feelings and thoughts. By practicing 'positive worry,' which involves contemplating positive hypothetical outcomes, individuals can gradually shift their mindset and reduce the impact of worry in their lives.