

Handling Holidays, Birthdays, and Other Emotional Landmines
Jul 25, 2025
50:48
In this episode, I sit down with Diana, Marie, Michele, Grace, and Rochelle—five divorced Christian women—to dish on how the first 365 days post-divorce can feel like navigating an emotional minefield with a blindfold on and flip-flops. We're talking the first holidays that smacked us sideways, the unexpected emotional triggers, practical, real-life survival tips to make it through without self-combusting, and why “just be grateful” is not the ministry you need right now.
Key Takeaways:
- Grief is sneaky—you might be totally fine… until you’re not.
- Freedom is real—and sometimes it shows up in a firework-lit sky.
- People still say the worst things—yes, even the ones at church.
- Your triggers are valid—you don’t owe anyone an apology for how your body remembers pain.
- You’re not the only one crying in the car—and you don’t have to pretend you’re fine.
Read the full show notes, get the journal questions, and/or ask Natalie a question here
Related Resources:
- Flying Higher (https://joinflyinghigher.com) is my live mentorship program for Christian women pursuing increased confidence, emotional management, relational health and empowered self-development.
- Feel like a hot mess after divorce? This 5-Day Workshop will teach you a mind-shift tool to help you learn a powerful way to manage your thoughts and emotions in order to navigate adult decisions with clarity and peace.
- Listen to Diana’s podcast, the Renew Your Mind Podcast.
- Connect with Marie on her blog, Live Like it Matters, and website, Spiritual Direction with Marie.