

The Wheel of Consent with Betty Martin
Feb 20, 2024
Betty Martin, creator of the Wheel of Consent, discusses the dynamics of giving, receiving, taking, and allowing. The practice teaches communication, boundaries, integrity, and self-awareness. It emphasizes the importance of clear consent, vulnerability, and connection in relationships. The model can be applied to understand ourselves and relate better to others.
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Clarity in Intimacy
- The Wheel of Consent clarifies intimacy dynamics, not just sexually, but in all human interactions.
- By understanding these dynamics, we can avoid miscommunication and potential problems arising from unclear wants and boundaries.
Unsatisfying Encounter
- Betty Martin shares a common scenario where a man tries to please a woman sexually without knowing her desires.
- This results in both feeling unfulfilled, highlighting the importance of clear communication and consent.
Ask, Don't Assume
- Ask your partner what they want instead of assuming.
- This clarifies giving and receiving, creating genuine intimacy and connection.