The Ramsey Show Highlights How Do I Trust My Boyfriend Will Stay Out Of Debt?
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Nov 1, 2025 Brittany, a caller seeking advice on relationship trust and finances, shares her concerns about her boyfriend's $20-30k debt after a painful marriage experience. Dave emphasizes the importance of assessing character over time and not rushing into engagement based solely on debt status. They discuss the necessity of open communication about past wounds and the significance of long-term financial integrity. Practical tips include budgeting together and establishing financial transparency to rebuild trust.
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Verify Character Before Marriage
- Date long enough to be sure of his character before marrying him.
- Talk with a counselor or pastor about past wounds to avoid projecting them onto your new partner.
Judge By Patterns, Not Debt Totals
- Base engagement decisions on patterns of behavior, not a single debt balance.
- If he's trending responsible and you trust his character, moving forward is reasonable.
Trust Is Earned Daily
- Past relationship wounds make financial trust sensitive and require extra care.
- Earning trust takes daily consistent integrity and can be destroyed quickly if violated.