Shameless Sex

#397 Uncover Your Modern Love Language - with Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE

Sep 3, 2024
Anne Hodder-Shipp, a groundbreaking author and founder of Everyone Deserves Sex Ed, discusses her latest book on modern love languages. She critiques the limitations of the classic 5 Love Languages and introduces 18 evolving love languages that suit contemporary relationships. Anne also sheds light on the state of sex education in the U.S., emphasizing the need for comprehensive and inclusive training. Throughout the conversation, the importance of communication, consent, and sensual experiences in love and intimacy is highlighted, offering fresh insights for listeners.
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ADVICE

Recreate Orgasms Mindfully

  • To recreate a specific orgasm, focus less on expecting it and more on feeling pleasure moment to moment.
  • Combine recreating the scenario with tuning into bodily sensations, not the outcome.
INSIGHT

Limitations of 5 Love Languages

  • The original Five Love Languages book is limiting and mixes love with evangelical Christian values.
  • Anne Hodder-Shipp developed 18 modern love languages to better reflect diverse, inclusive love experiences.
INSIGHT

Modern Love Languages Are Inclusive

  • The 18 modern love languages emphasize platonic love and break away from sexualized notions of love.
  • They include perspectives inclusive of asexual and aromantic individuals and diverse relationship types.
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