

How To Talk About Getting Engaged
15 snips Aug 24, 2025
This week delves into mastering the art of discussing engagement with your partner. It emphasizes that this conversation should be a true partnership—50/50. Key topics include navigating tricky subjects like kids, family, and career aspirations before taking the plunge. The discussion also touches on addressing a selfish friend, encouraging your partner to mature, and handling dismissive behavior. It’s all about fostering open dialogue and ensuring that both partners are on the same page about their future.
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Engagement Must Be A Shared Decision
- Engagement should be a mutual, 50/50 decision rather than a unilateral surprise by one partner.
- The proposal moment can be surprising, but the decision to get engaged requires shared agreement and planning.
Caller Who Feared Asking About A Proposal
- Alex recounts a caller who asked when her boyfriend would propose after only light talks about a future.
- That call prompted Alex to address how many women avoid asking the direct engagement questions.
Open The Future Conversation Directly
- Start the conversation directly and calmly by asking to discuss timelines and future goals with your partner.
- Use phrases like: "I want to have an open and honest conversation about how you're feeling about engagement, marriage, and kids."