Into The Light Podcast EP:15 Jonathan Holmes talks about a flourishing sex life in marriage, even after the damage of pornography.
May 2, 2025
Jonathan Holmes, a professional counselor and the Founder of Fieldstone Counselling, shares valuable insights on nurturing a healthy sex life in marriage despite challenges like pornography. He discusses the transformative power of open communication and the importance of addressing misconceptions about intimacy. Holmes emphasizes the need for adaptability in sexual frequency and tackling issues like painful sex among women. His hopeful message encourages couples to align their relationship with biblical values and seek resources for deeper sexual understanding.
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Sex as Covenant Sign
- Sexual intimacy in Christian marriage is a sign and seal of the covenant between husband and wife.
- It glorifies God through consummation, pleasure, and unity within a committed bond.
Sex Is Not Dirty
- The cultural view that sex is dirty often stems from silence and shame around the topic.
- Hebrews teaches marriage sex as undefiled, a good and holy act reflecting God’s design.
Practice Spirit-Led Sex
- View sexual intimacy as an act of selfless consideration modeled after Christ’s love.
- Walk in the Spirit to cultivate generosity and mutual respect in marriage sex.
