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Why Couples Therapy Fails & What Really Saves a Marriage | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep321

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Sep 30, 2025
Is couples therapy really the fix it claims to be? Cass and Kathryn dive into why traditional therapy often leaves couples feeling more disconnected. They argue that outdated methods focus on past pains instead of addressing root issues. Modern relationship challenges deserve fresh approaches! Discover radical honesty and self-responsibility as effective tools for healing. This discussion promises actionable insights that might just change your perspective on saving your marriage.
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INSIGHT

Therapy Fixates On Symptoms, Not Issues

  • Cass and Kathryn argue couples therapy keeps couples stuck by focusing on past symptoms rather than underlying issues.
  • They say validation of pain without moving toward solutions prevents forward progress in marriage.
INSIGHT

Focus Direction Determines Relationship Outcome

  • Cass uses the 'look at the ditch' metaphor to show that focusing on past problems steers couples further into conflict.
  • Forward focus matters more than rehashing past grievances for marital progress.
ANECDOTE

Client Chose Them Over Traditional Therapy

  • Kathryn recounts a prospective client who chose them because he felt traditional therapy doesn't fit modern needs.
  • He sought their different approach, signaling demand for alternative methods.
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