
The Jeff Cavins Show (Your Catholic Bible Study Podcast) Dealing with Shame in Your Life
Nov 7, 2025
Shame can quietly dictate our lives and how we see ourselves. Learn the crucial difference between guilt and shame, as they deeply affect our identities. Discover how public exposure and family dynamics can cause shame. Dive into the wisdom of St. John Paul II, who highlights how love and mercy can dissolve shame. Jesus' response to the woman caught in adultery illustrates His power to free us from this burden. Finally, Jeff emphasizes the importance of confession and running to the Lord for healing and renewal.
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Shame Targets Identity Not Just Actions
- Shame is a painful sense of being unacceptable that colors your identity rather than just your action.
- It drives hiding and humiliation, as shown by Hester Prynne and Psalm 44's description of disgrace.
Hester Prynne's Scarlet Letter Example
- Nathaniel Hawthorne's Hester Prynne illustrates how public exposure forces shame and the desire to disappear.
- The scarlet letter dramatizes shame's power to destroy reputation and self-worth.
The Accuser Amplifies Shame
- Satan functions as the 'accuser of the brethren' who will relentlessly accuse you and amplify shame.
- You can either listen to that accusation or listen to Jesus' mercy, exemplified in John 8.





