Mind Games

The Drummer with the Knives

Jan 27, 2026
A trip to 1970s Santa Cruz where experimental therapy, commune life, and charismatic persuasion collide. Stories of dramatic group sessions, hypnotic demonstrations, and a controversial trust stunt gone wrong. The birth of a therapy-turned-persuasion practice and the ethical questions that followed.
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ANECDOTE

Miracle In A Living Room

  • Judy Delosier watched a man with uneven legs walk out cured after an early NLP workshop in her Santa Cruz home.
  • She called it a miracle and became curious about how language and suggestion produced physical change.
INSIGHT

Roots Explain The Method

  • NLP began as an experiment among college students in 1970s Santa Cruz mixing therapy, role-play, and linguistic analysis.
  • Those roots explain why NLP blends healing techniques with persuasive verbal patterns.
ANECDOTE

Drummer With Knives Joins A Commune

  • Richard Bandler taught drums to Bob Spitzer's son and showed up carrying several knives as part of his persona.
  • The Spitzer family adopted Bandler into their commune and gave him access to psychology networks and resources.
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