Focus on the Family with Jim Daly Healing Our Hurting Marriage
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Apr 11, 2025 In this insightful discussion, Pastor Paul Westbrook shares his personal journey of recovery from a work addiction that nearly derailed his marriage. His wife, Melody, opens up about her feelings of neglect and the anger that arose from their struggles. Together, they highlight the transformative power of counseling at Hope Restored, emphasizing vulnerability, accountability, and self-care as key components in rebuilding their relationship. Their candid experiences offer hope and practical advice for couples facing challenges.
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The Westbrook's Crisis
- Paul Westbrook felt his marriage was fine, but Melody harbored deep hurts due to his long work hours and inattentiveness.
- This led to a major crisis, prompting Paul to seek help to save their marriage.
Melody's Pain
- Melody Westbrook felt increasingly insignificant as Paul prioritized church growth, leading to her suppressed hurt and anger.
- She sought counseling, admitting her deep-seated anger and seeking a path towards healing.
Wasting Time
- Paul's counselor advised him to "waste time" with God and family.
- This meant engaging in non-purposeful activities, leading to self-reflection and strengthened relationships.