373: How Do I Keep My Mother-in-Law Alive? | Feedback Friday
Jul 3, 2020
Navigating family dynamics takes center stage as one listener grapples with a reluctant spouse and a mother-in-law's health. Balancing career success with burnout becomes a pressing topic, highlighting the need for self-care and boundaries. The complexities of supporting a friend during a manic episode raise concerns about emotional tolls and responsibilities. Exciting family connections and the creative pursuits dilemma provide a heartwarming and thought-provoking exploration of life’s challenges.
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Setting Boundaries
Set boundaries regarding your involvement in your mother-in-law's health.
Determine your role and responsibilities, especially if your mother-in-law resists help.
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Understanding Wife's Perspective
Your wife's refusal to confront her mother may stem from long-standing frustration and exhaustion.
She may be aware of her mother's stubbornness and has given up trying to change her behavior.
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Communicate Directly with Your Wife
Ask your wife what she wants and what you should be expected to do.
Directly communicate with her about the situation and your concerns, rather than assuming her intentions.
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