
Exploring More Fathering - Learning From our Mistakes | S4E34
May 28, 2025
Josh Overton, a father of three and leader of the Zoe Allies, shares heartfelt stories about fatherhood and healing. He discusses the nuances of parenting boys versus girls and the deep impact of generational wounds. The conversation highlights the importance of empathy, active listening, and acknowledging mistakes in parenting. Josh recalls moments with his sons, focusing on reconnecting after missed opportunities and the power of a father's presence. Ultimately, they emphasize turning regrets into opportunities for reconciliation and growth, fostering a safe space for children.
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Wounding Is Inevitable But Repairable
- Fathers inevitably wound their children at some point, because parenting happens in a fallen world opposed by spiritual forces.
- Recognizing this reduces shame and reframes repair as part of the lifelong fathering task.
Ask Why Before You Correct
- Do not tell children what to think or feel; instead ask why they think and feel that way to pursue their hearts.
- Prioritize listening over dictating to transform moments of misbehavior into invitations for understanding.
Generational Patterns Shape Parenting
- Generational patterns of parenting often resurface unconsciously when we become parents.
- Understanding grandparents' and parents' wounds brings empathy and clarity, not justification.
