The Weekend Read: Ange Lavoipierre on how much sex is too much for one person
Mar 9, 2024
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Exploring the contrasting views on sex and relationships, journalist Ange Lavoipierre discusses the dynamics of Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous and the non-monogamy community in Sydney. The podcast dives into the challenges faced by individuals in different relationship structures, shedding light on acceptance, support, and personal journeys towards understanding and authenticity.
Exploring varied relationship dynamics through non-monogamy promotes open conversations and diverse lifestyles.
Acceptance and support for unconventional love and sex appetites are provided through different programs and approaches.
Deep dives
Diverse Approaches to Love and Sex
In a Sydney suburb, two very different events explore the question of how much sex is too much. One group involves Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous Meetings, where individuals discuss their struggles with sexual and romantic appetites. The other event focuses on ethical non-monogamy, allowing open discussions for those exploring varied relationships. The contrast highlights unique approaches to affection and relationships, drawing attention to navigating different perspectives on love and sex.
Contrasting Meetings and Mindsets
The Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meetings mirror the structure of Alcoholics Anonymous, emphasizing acceptance of being 'broken' due to love and sex addiction. In stark contrast, the non-monogamy community embraces varied relationship dynamics, from occasional swinging to polyamory, promoting open conversations and diverse lifestyles. Both groups aim to support individuals operating beyond conventional boundaries of love and sex, albeit through different methods and mindsets.
Exploring Personal Journeys and Support
Individuals like David, who have experienced both worlds of excessive sexual activity and addiction recovery, share their journeys of exploring diverse relationship boundaries. While some find solace and structure in programs like Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, others, like David, shift towards monogamy and professional help. The intertwined history of AA and SLAA reflects a shared mission to aid individuals in managing unconventional love and sex appetites, offering varied support systems for personal growth and recovery.
Today on the show, journalist Ange Lavoipierre will be reading her piece from a recent edition of The Monthly.
In the suburb of Newtown, in Sydney, two support groups almost diametrically opposed are asking essentially the same question: how much sex is too much for one person?
In one group, the Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meeting welcomes those who are ashamed about the size of their sexual and romantic appetites. For the other, an ethical non-monogamy night allows space and discussion for those who can’t get enough.